(racoon 845) Help needed for racoon in transport mode

[Michael Ragusa <michael.ragusa@ai.net>]

Ok I finally got racoon working in transport mode via x509 certs in 
freebsd and windows xp (go me!) BUT now the current issue is that i cant 
not use services to my test server
my current setup is like this

Windows XP (internal LAN) ----- Linksys router (*BEFW11S4*) ----- 
INTERNET ----------- test server

now i can successfully ping the test server from both my freebsd box and 
my windows xp box but when i go to ssh or access the web server when 
ipsec is enabled everything times out

the test server is running racoon-20040818a and the freebsd internal box 
runs the same version of racoon and both are running on the freebsd 4.8
the spdkeys entry on the server is 0.0.0.0 -P in/out ipsec 
esp/transport//use as this is the correct way to do it when using x509 
certs with DHCP clients ( at least so i have read)

the connections establish successfully but everything other than pings 
will time out and i  see nothing in the logs
any suggestions or ideas or help is much appreciated

thanks